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Thursday, May 24, 2012

Our destiny


Our destiny is written upon the stars
In the moonlight we find out who we truly are
We shall stand on the edge of the world
To watch as time unfolds

Sorrow filled hearts
Tear filled eyes
Terrible loneliness presides

Desolate landscape, dark as night
Shadows haunting all of our sides
Sad melodies fill our heads
Too much pain to go on

Sorrow filled hearts
Tear filled eyes
Terrible loneliness presides

Rivers of blood pooling into lakes
Mayhem run wild to turn us insane
Which way should we go
Which path should we take

Sorrow filled hearts
Tear filled eyes
Terrible loneliness presides

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Another side project...

Hello Everyone,

I started another side project which is totally unrelated to this quest. I started collecting laptops for kids without laptop who whose families can not afford buying one.
I realized most kids around me have fancy laptops (I am talking about Macbook Pros) and there are kids that their families can not even buy a very cheap one. Therefore if you have one those old laptops sitting around your place and you do not need it and it is working or need a little repair then let me know. So far I have collected three laptops and one flat monitor. Like always, wish you all happiness, health and wealth.

Some thoughts...

Since some people were wondering that how long this quest would take and what I want to do when I finish it.
First, as of now I am planning to give one third on my share to Hospital for Sick Kids and Princess Margaret Hospital. for cancer research.
How lonf this would take? Hmmm, I am so optimistic that I could finish it in 30 months.
Therefore is you have something to trade then do not hesitae. Not only you get some share of this condo but you indorectly contributed to one above hospitals.
Wish you all hapiness, health and wealth.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Made the first trade.... Yay!

Hi Everyone,
 
 I traded the set of coins with a brand new Black & Decker Griddle today and thanks to one of our Torontonians for making the very first trade in this quest. Althought I had to sweeten the deal by giving her a coin gift box too ...but still was a good trade since the griddle is $49.99.
Now I have this griddle up for a trade with something more valuable. If you have anything sitting at your home and you do not use it and it is in god cndition and you like this griddle then make a trade and be part of this quest. Wish you all happiness, joy, health and wealth.
 
 

 

Tori Stafford's brother's statement brings Rafferty to tears

Michael Rafferty sentenced to life in prison tday and judge called him a monster. Here is Tori's brother's statement. May God bless her and her family.
"When I was asked to write my statement, I didn't know what to write. What is there to write when there are no words to describe the impact this whole thing has left on me.
Not everyone knows how it feels to have your world ripped out from under you in less than a day.
No hugs, no "see you later," no goodbyes, just a part of my heart ripped out. Not one person can say they feel the same way as me. My sister, was the only person I had to talk to, someone that felt what I felt, cried when I cried, laughed when I laughed and now I feel alone, like the world is playing a sick trick on me.
But it's not. This is my reality.
No more fun times, just old memories, no more "I love yous," just an empty spot in my heart.
On top of that loss, I have a dad who is also dealing with thoughts around this situation, a mom who is an addict because she doesn't know how to cope with her own emotions surrounding (sic) this, and a totally fractured family.
I can't even talk to someone and know if they like me for who I am or because they feel bad that I'm Victoria Stafford's brother.
On top of that, I now have really strong anxiety problems. I can't walk by myself without watching behind me. I can't sleep because of nightmares and my fear of the dark and I can't be alone.
The first question is, "Have there been any changes to your family? How would you describe your family relationships?" To answer that in full honesty, my family is torn.
My mom and dad can not get along. They never have but now they can't even for me. My dad's side of my family sometimes can't stand each other and the same with my mom's.
In the past three years, I have missed dozens of days of school because of counselling sessions (sic) with a psychiatrist.
I can't concentrate most days because my mind is always somewhere else. I have to take walks and talk to my teachers because a lot of the time, I can't control my emotions.
I don't even want to go out for sports teams because of my anxiety and my low self-esteem and confidence.
The booklet then says was anything taken from you? It's obviously asking about property but something was taken from me. My baby sister was taken from me and that's not something I can go buy at a store and replace.
My last memory I have of Tori was only a few minutes before she went missing.
We were arguing like any brother and sister but when school was done and we parted, I didn't know I would never get to see her again. And it was weird because it felt like something was wrong. I could feel it.
Now I am lost without her, trying to move on without my baby sister and best friend.
That's all."

Doubt!

I guess I has happened to all of us to have doubt in our daily lives. I watched the movie "Doubt" the other day for 4th time. I liked the movie. Here is a summary of it:



It's 1964, St. Nicholas in the Bronx. A charismatic priest, Father Flynn, is trying to upend the schools' strict customs, which have long been fiercely guarded by Sister Aloysius Beauvier, the iron-gloved Principal who believes in the power of fear and discipline. The winds of political change are sweeping through the community, and indeed, the school has just accepted its first black student, Donald Miller. But when Sister James, a hopeful innocent, shares with Sister Aloysius her guilt-inducing suspicion that Father Flynn is paying too much personal attention to Donald, Sister Aloysius sets off on a personal crusade to unearth the truth and to expunge Flynn from the school. Now, without a shard of proof besides her moral certainty, Sister Aloysius locks into a battle of wills with Father Flynn which threatens to tear apart the community with irrevocable consequences.

I think the best quotes were :

"Doubt can be a bond as powerful and sustaining as certainty. When you are lost, you are not alone."


"A woman was gossiping with her friend about a man whom they hardly knew - I know none of you have ever done this. That night, she had a dream: a great hand appeared over her and pointed down on her. She was immediately seized with an overwhelming sense of guilt. The next day she went to confession. She got the old parish priest, Father O' Rourke, and she told him the whole thing. 'Is gossiping a sin?' she asked the old man. 'Was that God All Mighty's hand pointing down at me? Should I ask for your absolution? Father, have I done something wrong?' 'Yes,' Father O' Rourke answered her. 'Yes, you ignorant, badly-brought-up female. You have blamed false witness on your neighbor. You played fast and loose with his reputation, and you should be heartily ashamed.' So, the woman said she was sorry, and asked for forgiveness. 'Not so fast,' says O' Rourke. 'I want you to go home, take a pillow upon your roof, cut it open with a knife, and return here to me.' So, the woman went home: took a pillow off her bed, a knife from the drawer, went up the fire escape to her roof, and stabbed the pillow. Then she went back to the old parish priest as instructed. 'Did you gut the pillow with a knife?' he says. 'Yes, Father.' 'And what were the results?' 'Feathers,' she said. 'Feathers?' he repeated. 'Feathers; everywhere, Father.' 'Now I want you to go back and gather up every last feather that flew out onto the wind,' 'Well,' she said, 'it can't be done. I don't know where they went. The wind took them all over.' 'And that,' said Father O' Rourke, 'is gossip!'"

Monday, May 14, 2012

You can trade your items by sending an email to me

Hello Everyone,

Just wanted to say that if you have any item to trade then you can drop me a message and we go from there. I have listed the below coins on Craigslist.ca and Kijiji.ca too. These coins are good as a gift and they are sold 12.99 on ebay. They are sold out on Royal Mint website.


Do not forget that anyone who participates in this quest get a piece from the dream condo :))

Is real estate market really going to crush soon?

I guess this is the question that everyone has in his/her mind these days. We know for sure that real estate market considers as kind of safe place to invest. Although it has ups and downs but overtime it goes up (at least it is better that most mutual funds and stock markets). 
To answer the above question, Yes, I believe the real estate bubble is going to burst in next couple of years. Just consider that the price of single family home in some areas like Leaside has doubled for past 8 years and this is a very significant increase in value. And it is still going up for next couple of years but that is about it and this bubble will pop. How much it goes down? it is hard to say. I would say something in range of 20% to 30% and this could escalate if more sellers go to market.
It is like stock market, when it is time for market correction then major stocks could drop as much as 30% or so (By the way, although so many people think that we are over economic crisis but they are wrong. I believe it is time for major correction - we'll see what happens in next few months).
One of the option is cash in your home equity and buy back later which it has it's own pros and cons and I leave it for you to make this decision and I will not recommend anything.
But if you are thinking to sell your home then there are some simple things that you could do to make best out of selling your home.

  1. Consider hiring a real estate agent, do not even think about doing it your self to make more money, it is not going to happen.
  2. A simple touch up painting make a big difference. Go with natural colors. This make your home bigger and brighter an you still leave the option for buyer to come up with his/her own color.
  3. You do not need to hire someone to stage your home but you can do it yourself. Get rid of extra stuff  that you will not use them so often and store them somewhere specially get rid of all clutters.
  4. Keep your place clean and neat. The goal is that when someone sees your place then thinks that it is his/her on place and could imagine himself/herself living there.
  5. If your home is outdated and you think that you can add value by doing some renovation then be careful not to go very crazy. There are a lot articles out there that tell you which renovation has the most return value and etc. I would say that kitchen is number one and you the most out of it but again do not go crazy and order $15000 kitchen cabinets. Bathrooms are number two but again watch the money that you spend. Having hardwood floor adds value for sure but do not think that you get all your money back.  
Also you might want to consider doing some of the renovation yourself. If your are a handyman/handywoman then this could be fun and challenging and also you could save a lot of money by doing these stuff yourself.
I did so many of the renovation in my place by myself alone. These are what I have done in my place:

  1. Installing Hardwood flooring.
  2. Renovating the kitchen (cabinets, counter tops, back splash, ceiling, spot lights, under cabinet lighting, new sink and faucet, new range hood).
  3. Painting.
 Unfortunately I do not have pictures before but these are pictures after i have done renovations.






 Well, for me the cost of labour was zero and I tried my best to keep the cost of material low but get good material. I shopped around and tried to wait and get the items on sale. The laminate flooring is from Ikea, I love the white color, it goes well bot with darker color and bright colors on walls. As for cabinets. Let me tell you something. You do not need to change the whole cabinet if base cabinet is good. You can simply change cabinet doors. Well, if the doors don match the base cabinet then you have some cutting to do which was the case for me and you need to have a good table saw for that. Also I installed new cabinet moulding. The counter tops are wooden from Ikea. The wooden counter tops are much better than laminate ones. For laminate if you burn it then that is it or if water goes underneath then have fun. But these are real wood and you can simply sand it and stain it. You can even chop stuff on it. The sink and faucet were from Home depot. The big challenge is when you want to cut the counter top to place new sink (have fun). The back splash was from home Depot again and I used these new sticky mats instead of traditional stuff and used non sanded grout. Also I ended up to do some wiring for under cabinet lighting and spot light on ceiling. Overall I am very satisfied with what I have done and I am sure I get my money back and even more. Well, the point is that I did not go crazy money wise and still my kitchen looks like that you spend more than few thousand dollar in it.
Well, it is better to stop this post right here. I wish you all peaceful life.

A peom called "Song" while I am persue my dream.


there's a song you sing
and I don't think you notice
but it calls to me
floating through the darkness

there's a song you sing
the sweetest melody
it's haunting me
for I hear it in my soul

there's a song you sing
in the moon's pale glow
it sounds so sorrowful
but pulls me ever closer

there's a song you sing
I hear it constantly
playing with me
drawing at my heartstrings

Sunday, May 13, 2012

The starting item to trade.

So, After going through my valuable items then I found these set of Canadian Legendary Nature Circulation 25-Cent 12-Pack sitting in my drawer. They are in original packaging and new. They are also sold out at Royl Canadian Mint site. Lets see what I get for them. I keep you guys updated.

 

My search for next home

So, Here I am sitting at home having a cup of coffee on Sunday May 13, 2012  surfing the web. I came across this blogger (through Yahoo Canada) whose quest is to trade one item for another more valuable item until he eventually get a condo. He is hopeful to do it within 17 trades and he started by trading a 2008 Dodge Challenger - Hot Wheel (worth $2) and he has made his third trade which is a Retro Red Raleigh Mixte Bicycle (approx. value $150 - good job). He is hoping to trade each item with something which is double in value!!!
Well, I guess nothing is impossible in this world and so many people who are looking to make headlines. 
This reminds me of a guy who broke up with his partner and decided to sell everything he owns (tangible and non tangible) on ebay to start a completely new life and I guess he sold everything for around $360000. And I read on Yahoo last week that he met someone and they fell in love and now he lives on an island close to Bahama (lucky guy).
Well, let me make the story short. Here, I am going to challenge Charles Moffat on his quest for a condo in Toronto.  Yes, You got it right. As my friends already know, I am selling my current condo to pursue my own business and I am going to rent a place till I get my new condo.
Since I studied Math and Statistics at university therefore I am going to be more realistic and not looking to double the value of each item rather looking at something between 30% to 50% increase in value till I get to my very last trade to get my new condo. And since I am a nice guy and really enjoy if i share my good moments with other people therefore I GET THE Two THIRD OF OWNERSHIP OF NEW CONDO AND DIVIDE THE OTHER ONE THIRD BETWEEN PEOPLE WHO PARTICIPATED IN THIS QUEST BASED ON THEIR CONTRIBUTION.
I still have not decided about the item that I want to offer for trade but I will do it tonight.

Here is the link to The other blogger.

http://mysearchforahome.blogspot.ca/p/my-quest-for-condo.html